8. YES, It Might Be Terrible FOR the FIRST TIME.
It might be awkward. It might not feel very good. It might even hurt. That doesn’t mean you’re going wrong! It will get better. Doing anything for the first time is usually awkward, whether you’ve waited or not.
9. YOU ARE NOT “BAD” FOR FIRST TIME
Regardless of what society says, there isn’t an objective measure of “bad” or “good.” Yeah, you can practice and perfect certain motions, but at its core, sex isn’t a skillset. Whether it is enjoyable or not is a question of you, as a couple, working and trusting each other together, and that’s something that can change and improve and grow. Put another way, it’s not, “Am I doing this right?” and “Is this working for us?”
10. Safe and secure:
Arranged marriages are particularly difficult for the woman. She is just asked to walk into a guy’s life, mostly without knowing anything about him. It is somewhat similar to the Stockholm syndrome in a weird way!